RELATIONSHIP PROBLEM??PLEASE HELP? belalpclub.org

I have been in a long distance relationship with a girl that lives in Montreal while I am in Ottawa (2 hours away) since august 2010. I would travel every couple weeks to meet her back in 2010 and 2011 because I have a car. Then in 2011, she moves to ottawa to attend college and lived 8 months with me (sept 2011 to april 2012). My parents were aware of the relationship but her parents were not aware during all these time together. She moved back to montreal in april 2012 for summer vacation and the thing is, she never bothered coming to visit me once. Twice I have met her was simply because I drove to Montreal for personal stuff. Two weeks ago her stepfather passed away and she told me she had talked about me at home and as her family is now aware of me I had to attend the funeral in Montreal. I went and attended the funeral and went to her home. I arrived the day before the funeral and she presented me to her sisters and mothers. They greeted me but none of them including her mother spent time to know me nor talk to me. I was very embarrassed but as we left an hour later to attend the body exposition at the funeral house, I did not really pay attention to their behavior because I assume they were under a lot of grief. I spent 3 days in montreal at the hotel and for these 3 days I could tell that my girlfriend was being distant to me. Saturday night she texted me on my cell and wanted to see me sunday morning before I left the hotel to go back home. I said Ok. I called her sunday morning and she never answered. SHortly before noon when I had to return the hotel keys, she texted telling she was tired and have a safe trip back. When I got home, I talked to her over the phone and I brought to her several issues about why her family did not even bother about talking to me and why she was distant and also why she spent 4 months in montreal and never bothered coming to visit me even once. As to her family she said that they were under grief and as to her being absent for 4 months she told me in a very rude that I KNEW BEFOREHAND THAT SHE LIVES IN MONTREAL WITH HER FAMILY THAT I HAVE A CAR AND IT?S MY BUSINESS TO COME. I was shocked and told her that every week during the school year she took the bus back and forth to come and she was very happy with that but why she could not do it even once to visit me during these 4 months. I was upset and told her that I am able to find other women and that I am not buying her as a girl. If she doesn?t care about me?SHe better finds her own appartment in september because she cant live with me anymore because I dont even know what her family thinks about me.
NOW PEOPLE HOW SHOULD I SEE THAT. WAS I CORRECT IN TELLING HER THAT? IS SHE CHEATING? USING ME? PLEASE HELP

I don?t think she was cheating on you, but I can tell that there?s something off. I think you were right in what you did in asking her what the situation was and saying what you did. Sure it might?ve been hurtful, but your argument is solid. If she?s ok with bussing back and forth and if she IS your girlfriend, then I don?t see why she would try to make up excuses and try to not make the effort to see you. It?s like WTF.

To be honest I think ending it would be best. Her family doesn?t seem to think you?re a priority in your girlfriend?s life since they?ve taken so little interest in you. Even under grief, if my daughter told me that she had a long term, long distance boyfriend I never knew about then I would make an effort to know who the guy is. From the looks of it she might?ve not made it you a big deal.

Unfortunately long distance relationships don?t really work. Unless both of you put in a lot of effort to continuously communicate and find ways to spend time with each other, it just doesn?t work. In the end someone?s going to find someone else who?s just as good just closer to them.

Hope this helped and best of luck to you!

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